Healing Your Parts with IFS
If you feel like you are fighting against your thoughts, emotions, habits, or self-criticism, you are not alone. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy offers a way to help you reconnect with your Self, heal old wounds, and experience more calmness, clarity, and peace in life.
What is Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)?
Do you ever find yourself saying, “A part of me wants this…but another part of me wants that?”
Then once you make a decision, the other part rears up and makes you regret it? This is a very common experience. Many people seek therapy because certain “parts” of themselves have formed extreme habits that can cause difficulties in their lives.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidenced-based, deeply compassionate, non-pathologizing approach to therapy. Instead of treating your symptoms like flaws, IFS help you understand, respect, and heal the conflicting parts of yourself.
Understanding Your “Parts” and Yourself
According to IFS, we are made up of two distinct elements: parts and the Self.
What are “parts”?
When we experience life’s difficulties, pain, loss, or trauma, parts of us step up to protect us from those hurts, sometimes in extreme ways. Examples of protectors include the inner critic, the perfectionist, the caretaker, and/or the controller. Sometimes part try to distract us from pain through substances, overeating, or overworking.
What is “Self?”
This is our inner center, sometimes called the soul. It is our source of wisdom, compassion, and clarity. IFS believes you were born with this core Self, and it can never be lost or damaged.
How IFS Helps You Heal
When your protective parts (like your inner critic) get too extreme, we often try to fight them or force them to stop. This just makes them fight back harder, trapping you in a painful cycle.
In our sessions together, we will break that cycle by:
Building Trust: Helping your protective parts feel safe enough to lower their guard.
Accessing the Self: Reconnecting you to your own inner wisdom and healing capacity.
Healing the Roots: Releasing the old burdens, hurts, and beliefs held by your most vulnerable parts.
As your internal system begins to trust your core Self, your protective parts can finally relax. This allows you to live with more clarity, confidence, and peace.
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To learn more about how IFS could help you on your healing journey contact me or book a free 15-minute phone consultation.
